Been four days of eventfully eventful events since I last posted anything here. Between Mahwish's fiasco at the airport and my own trip back to Karachi, it's been an incredible 4 days.
Friday evening was a blast with Mahwish. Except till we got to Cocco's. After which it was a rather stressful five hours from there on. The PIA people are nice though. Sort of. I'm glad i got a chance to spend time with her though. It's been ages. Should meet up one of these days in Karachi.
Saturday night session with the Kumman boys was a blast. Those three brothers are a piece of art. By the way, crossing and flying do NOT go together. If you've crossed, try not to get on board a plane. Specially without sleep.
Moizza was on the flight. As were Nukhba, Madiha, the Genius Twins and this other girl from LUMS who I don't know by name. I was carrying over 36 Kgs of weight. Another reason why the PIA people are nice. Sort of. I was allowed 20 for my flight and I carried 36.8. Thank you, uncles at the counter. Very nice of you.
Home is a special feeling. Despite being cooped up in the tiniest room imaginable due to logistical reasons, I'm having fun so far. Two days of utter, total relaxation. Talked to a number of people. Still have so many to talk to and meet up with. Ramis took about 20 mins to get used to my face which he hasn't really seen since he was was. last I met him was when he was 2 months old. He's gotten older, bigger, cuter and more fun to play with.
Sadaf Baji's coming from Canada with her kids. They'll be here three days before going off to Multan. That should be fun too. Shezah Baji's here too. She's expecting in October methinks. Another Baby!!! Still have to meet with Tazzie and see how she's doing.
Something that's ben bothering me and I want to just float out to all the women who read this: why is it that when you like a guy, and he's told you that he likes you, you will still not tell him that you like him? or how much you like him? or how long it's been that you've liked him?! What is so very wrong in a girl telling a guy that she likes him? Are women so unsure of their own strength that they're scared of saying that to a guy? Do they really consider themselves so weak that if they tell him they like him their world will fall apart in some way? I understand if you're not sure whether or not the guy likes you. In that case you can't just go upto him n say it. But if you like him, and have for a while, why not just tell him?! I swear, it's the fault of those damned Brontë sisters!
This tirade is a result of discovering that this girl I know has liked this guy for over five years now. She never said anything because she wasn't sure he liked her. Then one day he did tell her that he likes her and she still didn't say anything to him. She told him she couldn't be with him right then for some reasons; couldn't be with anyone right then. Yet, she never told him she liked him.
How can women do that?!
LaterzZz...
Cooking in the Digital Age
11 months ago
6 comments:
lol and they still say such bad things about pia? tsk tsk..
i think some women just tend to be scared of opening up to guys.. or some just need more assurances that revealing their feelings wouldnt end in total disaster.. yet there are MANY who do say out loud how they feel..
anyway, how's ur nephew doin?
They finally meet; the hero and heroin, they can profess their undying love for each other and erase all misunderstandings. "The End" and they will live happily ever after from that moment on. or at least thats what ur made to believe! But happy endings are never that easy, and sometimes mutual feelings arent enough. thats why she doesnt tell him, even though she feels the same way.
Women are bloody mad i tell you! and we're madder still to want them! Oh cruel fate!
what does 'crossed' mean? crossed and flying?
Shaima: the nephew is doing fine. he's adorable masha allah. does the cutest things. laughs at me all the time.
rabia: even if mutual felings aren't enough, clearing up misunderstandings is essential in order to move onto try and figure out what IS enough. But men are expected to express their love and interest. one would expect women to reciprocate atleast. women instead clam up even more! khair, i'm just in a bad phase abhi i guess!
Elf: if i'd wanted to explain to people what crossing was, i'd have already done it. it's something that some people will know about. others can just wonder; or ask me personally!
yo bitch !!
crossing eh ??
:P
*sigh*
Sometimes mutual feelings really aren't enough. Oh well. I don't think I'd go up to a guy and spell everything out... that's just not me. It doesn't have anything to do with me being "unsure of [my] own strength". It's just the way I am. Everyone's different.
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